Lorene M., of Writing about…Writing nominated me for the Sunshine Blogger Award. Thank you for the nomination! I think this is my fourth go-round with Sunshine. All the other nominations were from anime bloggers but Lorene’s blog is about writing in general, so I’ll give this a shot.
Of course there are rules. There are always rules. I should have them memorized by now.
- Thank the blogger(s) who nominated you in a blog post and link back to their blog.
- Answer the 11 questions sent by the person who nominated you.
- Nominate up to 11 new blogs to receive the award and write them 11 new questions.
- List the rules and display the Sunshine Blogger Award logo in your post and/or on your blog.
1. Which is the best thing that happened to you in 2020?
My daughter got married to her boyfriend of 5 years… that was the best thing to “happen.” And Trump lost the election. A few other sort-of-good little things happened but I cannot think of anything else that really stands out. It has been a really bland year for me hiding out at home and only going out for solo recreation now and then.
2. Which is the emotion you predominantly feel and why?
Most of the time I’m not really feeling any emotions at all. I live in my head a lot. That’s just how I am built. Maybe love and affection for my pets and family when I look up from my writing. A sense of wonder when I’m in nature or engrossed in science.
3. Have did blogging taught you until now?
That’s gotta be a typo. I suppose blogging has taught me to be a better writer. I’ve learned that I can bare my soul – and everything else – online and still feel safe. Writing is a mechanism for organizing my thoughts better than just straight thinking. It clarifies how I feel and in clarifying that, it allows me to make useful changes in my thinking. I am am more free to be myself than I can be with strangers IRL.
4. If you knew for sure you will succeed with something, what would you start and why?
5. What is your biggest regret and what have you learned from it?
I have so many regrets I don’t know where to start. Relationships I bolixed up, failing miserably in school, not working harder at my brief career in aerospace, child-rearing failures, not doing daring things or having great adventures while I still had the physical and mental capacity. And those are just the regrets I might have had some small control over. If I have learned anything it is to try to keep the past in the past and not allow it to contaminate the present.
There is nothing I can do about my school or career now. There is nothing I can do about the inevitable decline in physical and mental capacity that comes with age. Nothing to be done for the friends and lovers that are gone. No point in remembering all the wrongs and slights of the past. Nothing to be done for the heartache and thousand natural shocks flesh is heir to.
If there is nothing to be done for the past, then it doesn’t matter anymore and should no longer be a source of pain nor a place a healthy human being should live in. Accept it, own it, be at peace and move on.
6. If you had unlimited powers and resources for one day, what would you do with them?
Put an end to all the hate and polarization in the world.
7. If you had to describe yourself in a short sentence, what would that sentence be?
I am many things but no one thing or combination of things defines me.
8. What is your favorite quote?
9. If you could be someone else, who would you choose to be and why?
I’d be Kino, from Kino’s Journey. She’s completely at peace with who she is. She has a companion and they are both comfortable with each other. She has the most incredible adventures. I am a born traveler.
10. What is the stupidest most expensive thing you ever bought?
I’ve never spent a lot of money on a whim. I have always been parsimonious about such things. Once upon a time, I self-published a novel. It was an apocalyptic nuclear war with our brave protagonists struggling to survive against the odds. One of the things I paid for was a short video promoting the book. Outrageously expensive, completely useless, but it was fun.
11. If you could learn anything (something you don’t already know), what would you learn and why?
I would learn how to belong with ordinary people. Sometimes it gets lonely to be on the outside looking in, even in friendly environments. I suspect I’m just not wired for it.
This is like my 4th go-round for the Sunshine Blogger nomination, so I’ll skip the questions and nominations.